Can I rent an 8 core 16gb vps and then put friendica, mbin, mastodon, and lemmy on it? Can I somehow use the same site to login to all of them or would it be like m.site, l.site, etc.
I use a hypervisor? enhance.com rnow to control my wordpress sites, can I still monitor/backup the servers with enhance while manually setting up fediverse instances? I could setup roles like nginx, mariadb, through it and when I do that it lets me easily setup, backup, and migrate websites to different servers I lose this functionality if I dont set up those roles through the panel. So I was wondering if I can set up those roles and then just setup the websites manually through ssh following the guides. Do they all use nginx other than friendica?
Interested in friendica, mbin, lemmy, mastodon, and peertube (going to rent another server and more storage eventually if I do that
You need different Subdomains as you suggested in your first paragraph. And add a reverse proxy like nginx or caddy to the machine which then proxies the different subdomains to the respective services (e.g. lemmy.your.site to localhost:2222, mbin.your.site to localhost:3333).
Theoretically, you could put a landing page behind some SSO/iam like authentik, and then link to the subdomains from the landing page, but eventually users will need be on the subdomain to use a specific site.